After a Long time....

hey guy itslong time since i hav psted any thing on d blog...actually i was busy wid my cousins marriage and also with final exams which were suppose to over by 16th but due 2 on going protest they will get over GOD KNOWS....
Indian Wedding -GUD O r BaD
while attending tomarriage may questions came 2 my mind why dat guy was going to kil his life just for sake of wedding....i dont no and even didnt got d answer from dat guy....basically i dont think dat the youth of today is intrested in wedding the only thing is dat we r moving towards d westernised societ but do u think that is it true ?????????
basically 75 % of our ppl run away from d basic customs that are being imposed on us...the only part we guys like is d first night and its for sure....but ya i dont like dat we r spending around a lakhs of rupees and just giving so many parties to other ppl
let me give u the aankhon dekha haal of the MArriage
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the celebrations starts many days as if some festival is going on in home and d poor guys who hav d exams are d sufferers ..any ways ...ya but the customs starts 5 days before which is called VIA HATH
in dis festive ladies get around and sing songs of wedding for the couple they re the great indian tradional songs which dey sing for well being of new couple.....and dat ends in a hr or so after dat we hav a lunch party and some thing like dis in dis way d day 1 ends...
now the second day......
by the time we arrange for our few arrangements like lighting ad decorating d house....
in d morningjust few lunch parties go on and the whole day a festive day moves on..
den the day three comes in tthe morning we dont hav any event but ya by d evening a event comes Called RAAT JAGA
in which the whole of the family the ppl from event far of places related to family come and evrybdy just pray to god for the well of of the family and the evnt ten a few dance partis and bhabhi of the groom prpepares a chart called THAPPA...
the day bfr the marriage comes and ppl gather up in d mrng to celebrate a event called maaiiya
in which every bdy put he besan on the face of groom.....and in the evening LAdies sangeet PArTy....definately a gr8 way to enjoy and C gr8 gals
now on the end day that is da day of marriage saintt is organised by the tim ladies apply mehndi and get ready and also in the evening there is GHODI and den patakha dat is marriage
but at end of all dis stuff i cud n't imagine y all dis stuff is gng on.......basically what matters is MONEY like the groom family getting a lot amount of cash in hand and also A luxary car ....i dont get the purpose 2 marry dat y??????????????????????????????
the lady is suffering thru evry pain....y d gals side has 2 sacrifice every thinh y they hav 2 pay so much. coz they have given birth to the bbay gal.....no we were not born in this type of society....we have nvr dreamt of this kind of society...OUr youth nvr wants such a society...
basically what is left wid us is d money nothing muchwe are just runing for money its not only case with a wedding every thing in our society is associated by money directly or indirectly.....Money of course is only thing left for us guys lets turn up just open ur eyes there is much more needed den simply money
y we guys r getting influenced from poems like this
"NA BAAP BADA NA BHAIYA THE WHOLE THING IS DAT BHAIYA SAB SE BADA RUPAIYA"

guys just post ur comments...i will try keep this work up